I am the type of person that will call you on your shit when needed so at this point in my life, pretty much 18 years on this planet, I am a tad bit annoyed that people always react as if they are surprised when they get called out. For example, I know a guy that cheated on his girlfriend multiple times and then started dating the girl with whom he cheated. When her friends told him they thought he wasn’t a good person, he was shocked!
YOU CHEATED ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND…. MULTIPLE TIMES!! Of course people are going to think you’re a shitty person. Stop playing dumb and own up. Simple.
Bottome line is, if you do shady shit, people will think you’re shady.
Stay classy, sassy and own up to your crap.